Orders delayed

Steve found out today that our orders are delayed. We may NOT be moving to North Dakota. Trevor having special ed stuff has our orders on hold. They are re checking into things. They think they may not be able to provide Trevor with the services he needs. Steve asked the military does that mean I have to move alone to North Dakota, they said no you won't be moving to North Dakota at all. We will pull your orders. We are so stressed. If we find out for sure we can't move to North Dakota it will be super stress big time. Our house, Steve job, etc, etc etc. I just don't know what we are going to do. I hope we hear a answer either way SOON.